Hi All, So this question I received is rather intricate and broken down into a main question and then sub-parts. I will answer in two separate blog posts. Kudos to the fan who articulated so well. Its starts as such: Ms Victoria, The question I have is, with a disciplinary spanking, how much say can the spankee have over the procedure and yet still maintain the effectiveness and integrity of the discipline? And then continues onto to say... I do believe the disciplinarian mus